4:34

الرِّجَالُ قَوَّامُونَ عَلَى النِّسَاءِ

بِمَا فَضَّلَ اللَّهُ بَعْضَهُمْ عَلَىٰ بَعْضٍ وَبِمَا أَنفَقُوا مِنْ أَمْوَالِهِمْ ۚ

فَالصَّالِحَاتُ قَانِتَاتٌ

حَافِظَاتٌ لِّلْغَيْبِ بِمَا حَفِظَ اللَّهُ ۚ وَاللَّاتِي تَخَافُونَ نُشُوزَهُنَّ فَعِظُوهُنَّ وَاهْجُرُوهُنَّ فِي الْمَضَاجِعِ وَاضْرِبُوهُنَّ ۖ فَإِنْ أَطَعْنَكُمْ فَلَا تَبْغُوا عَلَيْهِنَّ سَبِيلًا ۗ إِنَّ اللَّهَ كَانَ عَلِيًّا كَبِيرًا

Sahih International:

Men are in charge of women by [right of] what Allah has given one over the other and what they spend [for maintenance] from their wealth.

So righteous women are devoutly obedient,
guarding in [the husband’s] absence what Allah would have them guard.
But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance – [first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them. But if they obey you [once more], seek no means against them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand.
Bangla:

পুরুষেরা নারীদের উপর কৃর্তত্বশীল

এ জন্য যে, আল্লাহ একের উপর অন্যের বৈশিষ্ট্য দান করেছেন
এবং এ জন্য যে, তারা তাদের অর্থ ব্যয় করে।
সে মতে নেককার স্ত্রীলোকগণ হয় অনুগতা
এবং আল্লাহ যা হেফাযতযোগ্য করে দিয়েছেন লোক চক্ষুর অন্তরালেও তার হেফাযত করে।
আর যাদের মধ্যে অবাধ্যতার আশঙ্কা কর তাদের সদুপদেশ দাও, তাদের শয্যা ত্যাগ কর এবং প্রহার কর। যদি তাতে তারা বাধ্য হয়ে যায়, তবে আর তাদের জন্য অন্য কোন পথ অনুসন্ধান করো না। নিশ্চয় আল্লাহ সবার উপর শ্রেষ্ঠ।
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CRITICAL REASONING:

So, O Muslim women,

Where you get the idea of ‘equality’ from?

Where you get the idea of ‘partner’ from?

From your Rabb, Allah?

From your Rasul, salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam

or

From the Kuffar?

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So, what Allah says here?

A man is IN CHARGE over his wife. 

Now, do you ever find a partner is in charge over another partner?

It’s not possible.

A person would never ever come into a partnership to become subordinate to his partner, to allow his partner to be in charge over him.

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And then what Allah, your Rabb says next?

A RIGHTEOUS woman is devoutly OBEDIENT.

Would you ever find a partner obedient to another partner?
It’s not possible.
And how would you know what is meant by OBEDIENT to husband?
You need to read this to get a proper understanding of that.

Two partners remain honest and mutually respectful but never you would find one partner is obedient to another partner, never you would find the term ‘obedient’ in a partnership.

So, where you get the idea of being ‘equal’ or ‘partner’ or ‘equal partner’ to your husband?

Unless only you take your DEEN from the Kuffar!
Unless you take your Deen from your Rabb, the UN!

O Muslim women, May Allah guide you!
May Allah, Al-Jabbar return you to your Deen.